Hubby and I just celebrated our wedding anniversary. It’s been an awesome fifteen years! Or wait, is it twenty? No, maybe seventeen. Let’s see: 2014, minus 1996, equals eighteen.
Stop laughing – it’s hard to remember when you’re as happy as I am! Gotta admit that was a good save.
Truth be told, it seems like it was just yesterday that I was walking down the aisle.
Hubby and I have a ritual each year on our anniversary: we watch the videos from the big day.
Thank goodness for our friend with the new camera who took the video; it’s one of our most prized possessions. Especially since the whole event is a blur to us; it’s the only way we actually get to see what happened.
That said, I do remember a lot about my wedding day. Being insanely happy, for one thing. My niece was adorable at the age of five, always at my side. My then three-year-old nephew made a mad dash down the aisle after us as we exited the church – awesome.
I remember my friend who helped me get ready. Later that night I discovered she’d been mischievous too and had dumped a couple pounds of rice in my suitcase. Nice. I still owe her for that one.
There were touching moments as well. I remember Dad handing me a card from his mother – my Italian grandmother – who passed away some years earlier. On the envelope was her handwriting that said, “For Tami on Her Wedding Day”. Inside was a card she had picked out, with a fifty-dollar bill.
I bawled.
Dad explained that he had wanted to take that money and invest it; mom said no, leave it alone. I thanked him and put it away, awed that grandma had planned enough to leave this for me.
Eighteen years later and guess what? I still have that card, with the same fifty dollar bill.
Sentimental, yes. But not the wisest move on my part.
If I had taken that fifty dollar bill and invested it, I would probably have around two-hundred dollars now, more than doubling my money.
Honestly, over the years I thought about this many times. But fifty dollars? It seemed insignificant, an amount too small to bother with. I had more important things to worry about and I just forgot, or procrastinated, or both.
I was wrong. It was not too small. Investing that seemingly small amount would have been an investment in my future.
Same is true with our careers. We think that “little things” aren’t going to make an impact on our jobs.
Why take a class that doesn’t directly impact our current work? Why spend time and money to attend industry or alumni events when we are so busy? Why spend time staying in touch with all of those business contacts we’ve made throughout the years, especially if we don’t have business with them today?
Because investing today – even in seemingly insignificant ways – can payoff big-time later on.
Staying in touch with business colleagues is simple networking. Industry and alumni organizations allow us to actually expand our network while potentially learning something new. Taking a class is never a bad thing; if it’s business-related, it’s a resume builder and could help land our next job.
It’s so easy to get caught up in the day to day things that we forget to take time to plan for the future. Or maybe we just procrastinate, because that’s easier to do than thinking and strategizing and doing.
The time to invest in your career future is now. Every little step, no matter how insignificant it may seem, is a positive step.
Even I’m jumping on this bandwagon, taking a class that may help me down the road. I know it won’t hurt, that’s for sure.
It’s nice that I still have the fifty dollar bill grandma left for me. Yet I’m sure she would have wanted me to move forward and do something with that money rather than save it in a drawer.
Let’s invest in our future now, while we can, rather than look back and wish we’d done it sooner. Our future selves will be so happy.